Kalau Nak Berjaya, Bagilah Pasangan Berjaya Juga
Baru-baru ni saya bagi peluang kat Erina supaya attend seminar
perniagaan selama 3 hari dan inilah yang diupdate oleh Erina di facebook
peribadi beliau.
Grateful.
For a husband who encourages me to
grow.
When he heard about this leadership
summit that I attended the past 3 days, without hesitation he said, "Okay
you go, let me take care of the kids!"
Alhamdulillah, he took care of them
well. Very well indeed. With home cooked lunch and smooth bottle feeding and
driving with the two of them.
He told me today, "I've been
meeting a lot of like-minded people, attend classes, events and conferences and
networking meetups while you took care of the two kids these past 5 months. I
cannot leave you behind. You need the exposure too, you need to keep on
upgrading yourself,"
You know how as moms, sometimes you
have that guilt feeling for leaving your kids behind to do something for
yourself? Its not a good thing I know but we sometimes can't help it.
If he hesitated even a little bit,
I'm pretty sure I'll make an excuse for not going - because of that guilt
feeling.
This is teamwork I guess. For the
business, for the family.
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Sebenarnya, saya
agak terharu jugak bila wife saya tulis macam ni kat facebook dia. Ialah, kami
berdua bukan jenis romantic yang suka pegang tangan dan juga berkata-kata. Kami
adalah dari jenis yang sangat praktikal dan straight forward.
Apa yang saya
belajar selama saya berkahwin ialah kita semua bertanggungjawab dalam ‘development
of our partner’. Meaning – kita kena membantu untuk perkembangan minda, social dan
juga keagamaan pasangan kita.
Janganlah kita je
yang dok asyik nak semua benda. Mana aci wei. Bagi chance. Saya percaya isteri
saya perlukan sokongan moral yang sangat tinggi dari saya lagi-lagi sejak kami
berdua berbusiness full time.
Apa-apahal, jangan
lupa sekali sekala berikan kata-kata sakti kepada pasangan kita kerana mereka
adalah bunga yang sentiasa perlukan air dan baja untuk sentiasa kelihatan
segar.
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